15 Tips for Minimizing Stress

While stress (the type that spurs us on to complete projects and motivate us to the finish line) is a natural and often beneficial part of our lives, we can learn to minimize small day-to-day stresses that can create major frustrations in our lives.  Recreational therapist, Cathy Allen, CTRS, says that too much stress can be harmful, making you sick and irrational (no, not me!). 

In my coaching practice, I see that even though exercise can help reduce and manage stress, stress is often an inhibitor to actually doing the exercise.  In an interview, Ms. Allen shares 15 tips for minimizing stress (including, of course, exercise!):

• Wake up fifteen minutes earlier in the morning to avoid running late throughout your day.
• Practice preventive maintenance on your car, appliances, and home (things seem to “fall apart” at the worst time).
• Be prepared to wait: a magazine or book can make a wait in a line or at the doctor’s office tolerable and almost pleasant.
• Prepare and plan ahead: fill the gas tank before it nears empty, and buy postage stamps before you are running low.
• Count your blessings: for every one thing that goes wrong, there are probably ten blessings.
• Say "No!"to extra projects, social activities, and invitations you know you don't have the time or energy for.
• Surround yourself with non-worriers: when you associate with chronic worrywarts you too will worry more frequently.
• Be body wise: eat a well balanced diet, exercise, and get enough sleep.
• Discussing your problems with a trusted friend or family member can help clear your mind of confusion.
• Do something kind and helpful for somebody else.
• Eliminate destructive self-talk, such as"I'm too old to . . ." "I'm too tired to . . ." etc.
• Use your weekend for a change of pace. If your workweek is slow and patterned, add action and spontaneity into your weekends. If your workweek is fast-paced and full of people and deadlines, seek peace and solitude during your days off.
• Everyday allow yourself “free” time for privacy, quiet, leisure, and relaxation.
• Remember to take your lunch break. Get away from your desk or workspace even if it's for 15 or 20 minutes.
• Be optimistic – hold a forgiving view of events and people. Accept that we live in an imperfect world and that most people are doing the best they can.

(Cathy Allen is a Certified Therapeutic Recreation Specialist, Consultant and Educator working with adults, elderly, and psychiatric individuals.  She has written articles and two books pertaining to activities and dementia training. She can be reached at 714-376-6169.)

Message From The President:

While we are talking about minimizing stress this month, it reminds me that the holidays are soon approaching, some of which begin this month.  Many of the tips in our feature article can carry over to the holiday season. 

One tip that I find universally helpful, and that can be challenging to apply, is that of saying “no.”  The holidays naturally add more to our schedule: religious celebrations, family and social gatherings, and, of course, shopping.  Being particularly aware of what we commit our time to will help us to spend our time exactly as we want, and to stay out of the fray of the hectic holiday rush.

Taking a few minutes of “me” time each day (a client calls it PDT – personal down time) can keep you centered and in touch with what you need, feel, and want.  When you are more in touch, you will be more apt to say “no” when you need to.  You will also know when you are truly able to say “yes” and feel good about the commitment. 

Imagine your ideal holiday season.  That is my wish for you.  Enjoy!                    

To your health,

            Amy Lundberg
            Aim For It, President

Exercise and Pregnancy
Part Two: Postpartum Exercise

Last month we discussed the benefits and guidelines for exercise before and during pregnancy.  Your exercise program after giving birth is just as important.  As always, discuss with your doctor what kind of exercise you can perform and at what time after delivering.

Although you will likely have to wait some time after giving birth to resume exercise, when you are allowed, get into a routine as soon as possible.  Not only is exercise going to help you lose your pregnancy weight and get your body back to normal, it is also essential for your mental health.  You will be experiencing new kinds of stress with the new baby.  One of the most important benefits from exercise will be a reduction in stress as well as reducing the chances of developing postpartum depression.  Exercise will give you more energy, which you will need, and help you recover faster and heal from giving birth.

Many options are available for starting exercise.  Remember to build up gradually and do not expect to be at the same level you were before pregnancy.  If you were running, you will need to start walking and work your way back to jogging and then running.  Good cardiovascular options include swimming, aqua aerobics, cycling, and low impact aerobics.  Yoga and/or pilates are good choices for increasing abdominal and back strength.  A well-designed strength training program will go a long way in getting your muscle tone and strength back.

While it is easy to want to exercise again (and have the best intentions), putting it into action can be difficult with a new baby and little sleep.  Here are some ideas to help you stick with it so you will reap the benefits:

• Avoid the “all-or-nothing” mentality. Be flexible with your routine and know that some days you may not get in your exercise time.
• Find a health club with child care or that allows you to bring the baby while you exercise.
• Let your husband have some bonding time with the baby and give you a break to exercise.
• Take exercise classes that include your baby, or exercise with the baby in a stroller.
• Remember that even five minutes of exercise is beneficial!

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Client Testimonial

I used to lie awake each night hating myself and my weight.  I would try to think of some new kind of dieting torture or fitness routine that I would force myself to do the next day; I would weigh myself every morning when I woke up and every night before bed. The scale ruled my moods and life.  I was never able to follow any kind of dieting program for more than a few weeks, then along with the feeling of failure came weeks of neglectful eating.  Somehow I had lost the strong, sexy, confidant woman I once was and was masquerading as a frazzled mom and wife.  Through Amy’s lifestyle and fitness coaching I have rediscovered the sexy woman that I have always been.  I have learned to take good care of me as well as my husband and kids.  I no longer look for excuses not to exercise or eat right, in fact I seem to naturally look for opportunities to better myself, I have even found how enjoyable exercising with the kids can be.  Learning to eat intuitively has empowered me to keep up the consistency of bettering myself because I no longer feel deprived or that dreaded feeling of failure of “going off my diet.”  I never realized how much more often I was trying to read other people’s emotions than identifying and responding to my own.  I have truly become the healthy, happy mother/wife that I have always wanted to be, I love myself and I am able to pass that on to my family.  Knowing that I am teaching my children by example to be healthy both physically and mentally makes me feel better than any scale or quickie diet ever could.  Lifestyle fitness coaching/Intuitive eating with Amy has shown me results greater than what any scale could measure, and the benefits will last me a very healthy lifetime.

Kathy

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